The first time Kirk Lemoyne 'Lem' Billings was introduced to Bobby Kennedy Jr. the two spent several hours alone in the boy's room at fabled Hickory Hill, Robert and Ethel Kennedy's historic, sprawling estate, in bucolic McLean, Virginia. Given that Billings was a heavy-drinking Quirk alleged thatBilling and Kennedys relationship included oral sex with JFK always being on the receiving end. But Kennedy's reaction to Billings gay come-on soon changed and he became more amenable to his friend's advances, according to the writer Lawrence J. Quirk, author of 'The Kennedys in Hollywood.' The elder Kennedys at some point desired that the younger Kennedys: 7:44 PM. I mutter something on the order of yes, I must be, and she smiles. 'I thought, that's the kind of s**t heavy drug users pull. ', White House visitor: Billings often spent the night at the White House, which upset Jackie Kennedy. As Billings' biographer David Pitts told me, 'Once JFK decided that Billings was his best friend like it or leave, everybody in the family sort of fell in line with that. Ambassador to France under JFK, were hauled into juvenile court in the town of Barnstable on Cape Cod on charges of marijuana possession. In the spring of 1971, Bobby was sacked once again. at a General Shoe store, Emerson Drug Company VP, and an advertising executive 'Yesterday was Jack's birthday. By Adam Salandra. John F. Kennedy with Jacqueline Lee Bouvier. While Billings' missive is long gone, a startled Kennedy responded, 'Please don't write to me on toilet paper anymore. 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'I had written a report on Bobby, and Billings answered it and didn't agree with me, and that's when I thought, "Uh-oh, he's in charge here. 'We had a couple of calls from Jackie - "How's my nephew doing?" getting discharged in 1946. "The result is this book, which looks at Jackie before she was Jackie the Jackie that we all think we know. In 1962, the Queen, then 35, invited Jackie to a lunch when the First Lady was in London visiting her sister, Lee Radziwill, who lived there with her husband Prince Stanislaw Radziwill. He had an older sister, Ruth (Speer) Steele, older brother, Eugene "Bud" Speer, and younger half-brother Lawrence "Larry" Payant. Peter Cole, who taught English, noted, 'We as faculty members all seemed to have this awareness of Bobby's behavior and were totally unable to do anything about it, We did catch him finally and he was going to get tossed.'. 'But the one thing that struck me even at that tender age was that I felt Lem was just obsessed with Bobby the way he watched over him, the way he was hugely protective of him. Extent: 82 digital pages Collection: Among the snapshots is one that shows a handsome pre-presidential Kennedy sunning himself, sprawled on a chaise at Patriarch Joe Kennedy's Palm Beach estate. During the night of May 28, 1981almost two decades after JFK's untimely death - 65-year-old Lem Billings died in his sleep of an apparent heart attack. Because Jack had no intention of ever being a faithful husband. Lem was the second person Jack's sister, Eunice Kennedy Shriver, called after reaching her sister, Pat Lawford. Forests of redbud and magnolia are thickening around us, and somehow they're all in on the secret, and Kay Starr sings "Wheel of Fortune" on the radio, and, during the second chorus, I sneeze, and Jack says, "Perfectly in tune, Lem," and then the song is over, and we're pulling up in front of . While the photo of Kennedy cozying up to Monroe is the best known of him with one of his purported lovers, other far less public snapshots show the flip side of Kennedy's intimate relationships. JFK appeared to be in love with the idea of Billings being in love with him. John F. Kennedy, whose 100th birthday is being celebrated this year with a Kennedy Centennial postage stamp, TV memorials, a slew of books, and much media coverage, was revered as the 35th president of the United States. Published online July 6, 2017. She saw that Lem Billings was obsessively devoted to Bobby. New York City, taking lunch from his job at Lennen & Newell. His latest book, The Kardashians: An American Drama, will be published in September. Billings was devastated after the JFK assassination. quoted from the book: "Jack made a big difference in my life," John F. Kennedy and Kirk LeMoyne "Lem" Billings met in 1933 as sophomores at Choate Rosemary Hall, a Connecticut prep school where they worked on their class yearbook together. He attended one of the parents' weekends, but was never seen on campus again. By now, my glasses are fairly crusted over with pollen, so I'm making windshield wipers of my index fingers as I ask what it is that Miss Bouvier does with her days. It just reeks of arrogance, but I did not experience Bobby as arrogant.'. David Marciano - Steve Billings (2008, recurring 2005-2007) Benito Martinez - David Aceveda (2002-2008) . All in all, there's a certain relief in being able to retreat into the Crestline's back seat. to Frederic Tremaine Billings, a prominent physician and Romaine LeMoyne (direct When Joey Brode heard the story years later, she said that what Bobby had done, if true, was 'disgusting. Make a life-giving gesture. Kirk LeMoyne "Lem" Billings (April 15, 1916 - May 28, 1981) was a close and long-time friend of President John F. Kennedy and the Kennedy family. Billings had a romantic relationship with JFK's nephew, Bobby Kennedy Jr. Robert F. Kennedy Jr. And The Dark Side Of The Dream It was all quite bizarre. A unique and lasting tribute for a . The biographer Sally Bedell Smith, referred to Billings in one of her books as "probably the saddest of the Kennedy widows.". (See below for an exclusive excerpt.). was running for President. "The book posits the idea that there are these given points in our lives where we're making a really important choice," says Bayard. 'We never saw Ethel on the campus again. She has dabbed herself with Chateau Krigler 12 (I consider telling her it's my mother's favorite), and there is the complicating counter-aroma of Pall Malls, and somewhere at the back, simple bovine perspiration. Years later, when Bobby was an undergraduate at Harvard, it would be Billings the boy's Svengali-like surrogate father who took control of his life after RFK's assassination who would convince Bobby that one day he could become the next Kennedy president of the United States. They shared an insatiable intellectual curiosity, a robust sense of humor, and a disdain for petty rules. Gore Vidal, the writer who claimed he viewed homosexuality as normal as heterosexuality, disparaged the JFK-Billings relationship during the Kennedy administration. Jack for his health reasons and Lem for his eye sight. Lem P Speer <p>Lem P. Speer, 93, died peacefully in his home on November 20, 2021. I have no evidence one way or another, but I would discount [any sexual activity. ', Drugs had become part of the scene at Millbrook, and Bobby would become a major player. Lem Billings and John F. Kennedy met as teenagers at their Connecticut prep school and remained lifelong friends. Abruptly, she stands and gives us two quick waves and then, as she jogs to the passenger side, comes briefly ablaze in the headlights. As depicted in Netflix's The Crown, Queen Elizabeth II did actually host President John F. Kennedy and first lady Jackie Kennedy at Buckingham Palace in 1961. ', One of Jack's five sisters, Eunice Kennedy Shriver, found it hard to describe her brother's relationship with Billings, once stating, 'It was a complete liberation of the spirit' for Jack, and that her brother was a 'complete liberated man when he was with Lem. But the one thing that struck me even at that tender age was that I felt Lem was just obsessed with Bobby. Tglich werden Tausende neue hochwertige Bilder hinzugefgt. And so the book is full of alternative outcomes, the different roads that these three characters might have taken, particularly Jackie and particularly Lem.". From all accounts, they became fast friends, drawn to each other by their The Brodes friends included a number of gay men, among them such openly gay politicians as Barney Frank and Gerry Stuuds. Bobby, do you have clothes?" As George Terrien, Ethel's brother-in-law declared, 'Everyone knew Lem was queer - the Kennedys, the Skakels, everyone.'. "And she knew, at some level, that she was marrying another version of her father. Jack's best friend was Lem, and he would want me to remind everyone of that today. But it also looks at her through this particular prism of another outsider, Lem Billings. Enter your email below to have our funeral service notifications delivered to you. The President never failed to introduce Lem formally to visiting heads of state, dignitaries, and celebrities, but the introduction was never simply a matter of "I would like you to meet my friend, LeMoyne Billings." "He'd introduce me as Congressman Billings or Senator Billings, and even General Billings," Lem would later recall . Kirk LeMoyne "Lem" Billings (April 15, 1916 - May 28, 1981) was a close and long-time friend of President John F. Kennedy and the Kennedy family. RELATED:Jeffrey Epstein's Relationship With Princess Diana Explored In New Book. Still, Billings was viewed by many I interviewed for my biography of RFK Jr. as his gay Svengali who guided and literally tried to control every aspect of Bobby Jr.'s life from the time he was in his mid-teens. The hearing, lasting less than a half-hour, was held in private. Monroe and JFK were first introduced in 1954 by Peter Lawford, JFK's brother-in-law. Featuring interviews with Ben Bradlee, Gore Vidal, Ted Sorenson, friends, family, and many . Her moods could swing drastically. , updated 'Bobby would take his hawk and go hunting rats in the midst of the rotting cow carcasses and he sort of reveled in how off- the-wall that was. The president was famously believed to have affairs during their marriage. 'They make fun of my voice. And it's a kind of interesting love triangle between these three fascinating people.". Billings had once told Bobby that when he died he wanted the pall-bearers to be members of Bobby's circle of young friends, whom he knew well and with whom he had done drugs. The enthusiastic pre-adolescent regaled Billings - a New York advertising executive, one of John F. Kennedy's closest confidantes and a closeted homosexual - with stories about his pet collection. Jfk And Jackie Kennedy. The first lady, Jackie, had something of a love-hate relationship with Billings. Bobby left home with $600, and traveled to California, sometimes riding the rails, and ended up in Berkeley where he bought drugs with money he panhandled. Lem Billings andBobby Kennedy Jr became close after JFK's death and allegedly took drugs together. Quirk claims he first met Billings at Kennedys first congressional campaignand, as they became closer, he says Billings claimed that his relationship with Kennedy was sexual. His latest book, The Kardashians: An American Drama, will be published in September. , In office January 20, 1961 November 22, 1963. President Kennedy with his wife, Jacqueline, and Texas governor John Connally with his wife, Nellie, in the presidential limousine, minutes before the assassination. Of course, that gave most ofus the thought - does this guy have a job other than caring for Bobby? Still, the Kennedy clan accepted even welcomed Lem Billings into their exclusive inner-circle, practically adopting him, and he became a part of the family. Ethel Kennedy "booted" Bobby, Jr. out of the Hickory Hill home at age 14 and basically fed him to Billings. The first time Kirk Lemoyne 'Lem' Billings was introduced to Bobby Kennedy Jr. the two spent several hours alone in the boy's room at fabled Hickory Hill, Robert and Ethel Kennedy's historic,. Cherrydale? mutual distaste for their school and its headmaster, Seymour St. John. He also is responsible Or see our headlights slicing through the trees? ', Quirk, who acknowledged his own bisexuality, asserted that Billings 'believed that this arrangement enabled Jack to sustain his self-delusion that straight men who received oral sex from other males were really only straights looking for sexual release. 'But Lem,' he clearly recalled, 'was around a lot, and we as faculty were told who he was and that he was Bobby's caretaker, as it were, in a loco parentis kind of role. In Victorian Lem As a subscriber, you have 10 gift articles to give each month. Lem P. Speer, 93, died peacefully in his home on November 20, 2021. Lem married Rolla Jean Auer on September 17, 1950. Kirk LeMoyne Billings was Jack's very best friend from their time at Choate prep school in 1933 to that fateful day in Dallas 1963. By the middle of Bobby's second year at Millbrook, around January 1970, he was placed on a secret short list of students considered too difficult to remain enrolled. Reprinted by permission. 2023byTango Publishing Corporation All Rights Reserved. The Brodes didn't mind that Billings was gay and had such a close relationship with Bobby. A group home in Fort Myer, maybe. 11 Strict Rules That Elon Musk Makes His Girlfriends & Wives Follow, Justin Bieber Suspected As The Father Of Kourtney Kardashian's Son Reign (Instead Of Scott Disick), Why Kate Moss Was 'Scared' & 'Couldn't Get Out Of Bed For Weeks' After Working With Mark Wahlberg. And George Terrian, the alcoholic husband of Ethel Kennedy's alcoholic, pill-popping sister, Georgeann, told me in interviews for my book "The Other Mrs. Kennedy" that, "Everyone in the family knew Lem was q***r - the Kennedys, the Skakels, everyone.". Without advertising income, we can't keep making this site awesome for you. I mean, she doesn't look like she belongs there any more than I do, and I briefly wonder if she's a housemaid or a nanny, taking her one allotted evening out. Billings was a prep school roommate of Kennedy, an usher at his wedding and a campaigner for his successful 1960 presidential bid. As Fanning recalled years later, 'The room was filthy and Bobby let the bird, which perched on the bust of his father, s**t all over the place, including all down that bust of his dead father. Billings had once told Bobby that when. And seated close to Kennedy is his shirtless, tanned and oiled best friend forever, his very gay chum, Kirk LeMoyne "Lem" Billings. But for this kid to say that to me at that time was pretty deep and dark. 'I'm sure he's already organizing everything in heaven so it will be completely ready for us with just the right Early American furniture, the right curtains, the right rugs, the right paintings, and everything ready for a big, big party, he said. Ethel's alcoholic, philandering brother, George Skakel Jr., actually booted Billings in the a** at the church, knocking him into the aisle. David Pitts, the author of Jack and Lem: The Untold Story of an Extraordinary Friendship, told him: Lem was a gay man and he had a 14-year-old, good-looking kid living in his house with him and there had been rumors because of that. There is nothing, in short, about a "Miss Bouvier" to separate her from her predecessors. "I just became fascinated with Lem because he was a closeted but as they used to say 'practicing homosexual,' and he was very much part of the inner Kennedy circle from very early in his life," says Bayard, who did a deep dive into the Kennedy archives and biographies while doing researching for the book. He had his own room in the "People think I'm a joke," he once acknowledged. Quirk claims Billings would later confide in him that his relationship with Kennedy was sexual, to a point, and included oral sex, with Jack always on the receiving end., Their arrangement, Quirk says, enabled Jack to sustain his self-delusion that straight men who received oral sex from other males were really only straights looking for sexual release, and, Jack was in love with Lem being in love with him and considered him the ideal follower adorer.. Lem Billings relaxed on the Kennedys' Palm Beach estate the summer of 1936. Once again, Ethel Kennedy made just one appearance at the school, accompanied by Lem Billings, when Bobby was admitted, and 'everything had to go through Billings,' said Warren Geissinger, Bobby's Pomfret advisor, looking back years later. Lem had extremely poor eye sight and a high-pitched voice. ", But Billings was embarrassed about his effeminate mannerisms - he'd remain publicly closeted for his lifetime. Gore Vidal, the writer who claimed he viewed homosexuality as normal as heterosexuality, disparaged the JFK-Billings relationship during the Kennedy administration. But, the Skakels had previously been homophobic to Billings. Quirk had met Billings in the mid-Forties when both were volunteers in Jack Kennedy's first congressional campaign. by the end of his own lifetime he would have been described as gay. It was he, not Ethel, who handled all of Bobby's expenses 'He would come over fairly frequently for dinner whenever he was in town,' she recalled. 'We couched it in terms of what was best for Bobby. In her memoir, Times To Remember, published eleven years after Jack's assassination in Dallas in 1963, she wrote that Billings had "remained Jack's lifelong close friend, confidant, sharer in old memories and new experiences", He has really been part of "our family" since that first time he showed up at our house as one of "Jack's surprises. Kirk LeMoyne Billings, a retired advertising executive and a friend of President John F. Kennedy, died Wednesday at his Manhattan apartment. Genealogy profile for Lem Billings Kirk LeMoyne Billings (1916 - 1981) - Genealogy Genealogy for Kirk LeMoyne Billings (1916 - 1981) family tree on Geni, with over 230 million profiles of ancestors and living relatives. Lem Billings passed away from a heart attack at 65 in 1981. By Sydney Taylor Written on Nov 06, 2021. I still to this day see him standing there in his black necktie that he wore every day over a blue oxford Brooks Brothers shirt and a beat-up tweed jacket, and wearing the wildest bell-bottoms that were purple with Day-Glo green stripes like he was some soul band guy, and in his funky boots. While the Kennedy family had accepted Billings into their inner circle because of his tight friendship with JFK, Ethel Kennedy's family, the scandalous Republican Skakels of Greenwich, Connecticut, weren't so accepting. Where sits a girl. Son of Frederick Tremaine Billings and Romaine Elizabeth (LeMoyne) Billings. Joseph Kennedy Sr. called him "my second son," and he . After Kennedy was elected president, Billings was a constant presence at the White House, and advisers were concerned about possible political repercussions. Find the obituary of Lem Speer (1928 - 2021) from Billings, MT. /. The Kennedy patriarch, Joe, a noted philanderer himself, was suspicious of Billings' sexual preference from the start of his son's close friendship with him. When JFK was assassinated, he turned his attention to his nephew Bobby Kennedy Jr. During the night of May 28, 1981almost two decades after JFK's untimely death 65-year-old Lem Billings died in his sleep of an apparent heart attack. Although Joe Kennedy, the family patriarch, was reportedly suspicious of Billings close relationship with his son, the Kennedy family welcomed Billings into their exclusive family circle. Fanning, a self- described wild child at the time, recalled Bobby's visits to the pit, which he had witnessed, as 'grotesque. I understand he's not worth it.". He refers to virtually all his girls that way. White House. Oppenheimer wrote in the Daily Mail that their intimate relationship would last from their school years to the day of Kennedys assassination. Their lifelong relationship caused some of the presidents advisers to fear Russian agents may use the information as blackmail. Clarendon? Billings Funeral Home - Woodward Add Photos Add a Memory Henry Leroy Ray Henry Leroy Ray Woodward - Henry was born June 11,1955 in Amarillo TX. In his heartfelt and rather candid eulogy, Bobby said, 'I'm sure he's already organizing everything in heaven so it will be completely ready for us - with just the right early American furniture, the right curtains, the right rugs, the right paintings, and everything ready for a big, big party. 228. The prestigious Kennedy name practically ruled the institution. In 1964, Billings was named to head a ten-person committee to select a memorial to Kennedy to be placed in the Kennedy Center.

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